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  • The 100% cotton shirts (they call Premium, and come in a package with black and gold colored labeling) used to be made in Canada, but as of about 4 years ago are now made in Bangladesh, so I stopped buying them. The 50/50 (cotton/polyester) blend shirts (they call Supreme, and come in the package with the red and white colored labeling) are still made in Canada the last time I bought them so these are the ones I buy.

    Your info may be more up-to-date than mine though. If the “Supreme” undeshirts aren’t made in Canada anymore, I won’t be interested in them either.



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  • partial_accumen@lemmy.worldtoMemes@sopuli.xyzLe boo hoo
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    21 hours ago

    On your last note, I agree with you that empathy is important. I do give a shit what other people think and feel, but not when they are clearly line stepping, judgmental, and disrespectful. When they do that, it just proves it is time to move on.

    I was mostly referring to empathy for the groups of men that want the show emotions for sports.

    However for the shitty people we are dismissing, I can show empathy by understanding about the different socio-economic condidtions that likely make them into a raging homophobe or toxicly masculine asshole, but I in no way forgive them or condone their behavior. Understanding is a part of empathy, but it doesn’t have to follow that those that are disrespectful of other are to have that behavior be tolerated.




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    23 hours ago

    It’s usually pretty subtle. People will quietly lose respect for you and shut you out over time, or just gossip about you behind your back.

    Oh okay. I suppose that might happen more often but there are trash people everywhere that do shitty things like that based upon race, sexual preference, etc. I don’t spend any time sorting them into different groups before I dismiss them and ignore them.

    That being said, I dont give a shit about people’s perception of my manliness or sexuality.

    Yep, that’s my same state. As such, I don’t feel I have a need for a “safe space” in sports to express my emotions. I have no problem with other men expressing their emotions in sports spaces either, I just personally have that need for a defined space.

    I’m often DISAPPOINTED in people for how they react and judge sometimes, but always happier when those people remove themselves from my life. I don’t fawn after the approval of random assholes, be they male or female, and I never let it affect who I am. That’s what manliness actually is about: self actualization.

    I agree entirely. Just to note, self actualization absolutely also encompasses “empathy” as well, and that, in my mind, is one of the most important aspects. Knowing yourself means perceiving the world and those around you, and understanding the impacts of that world on others, and the impacts we each have on those. I’m pointing this out because what it looks like we’re having here is ultimately a discussion on empathy.