If your SO thinks it’s a joke, then I think the very first thing you need to do is consider whether you’re 100% serious about it or not. And then you need to discuss it with them as a serious topic, so they know you’re not kidding. And then take it from there based on whatever they say, bearing in mind that they may be 100% against it.
Also agree with the comment about potentially having to move back closer to family in future, if health situations deteriorate.
None of which is to say don’t do it. But it’s a major life change, so lots to consider.




























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